Demystifying the Mystical: Tarot Readers
If you are like many people, getting a tarot card reading was your first step into the metaphysical world. It's exciting, accessible, and often reasonably priced (more about that later!). Plus, it's fun to compare readings with friends. Tarot readings can offer clarity, guidance, and a deeper understanding of yourself. However, while finding a tarot reader is easy, finding an honest one is a different story.
We've all heard of cases where someone was scammed by a tarot reader who manipulated them out of their life savings. Unfortunately, some people prey on the vulnerable, so it's essential to know how to find someone who is trustworthy so you can avoid being tricked.
Understand What Tarot Is—and Isn't
Before seeking a tarot reader, it's important to know what they can and can’t do. Tarot is a tool for introspection and guidance, not a crystal ball that predicts the future. Honest tarot readers will present their readings as insights or possibilities, not guarantees. They aim to empower you to make your own decisions rather than insisting that their interpretation is the absolute truth.
I’ve come across three types of readers:
Beginner Readers: These readers interpret the cards based on their traditional meanings. For instance, drawing the Tower card indicates you are in a period of crisis or sudden change.
Experienced Readers: With time, most readers develop their own interpretations of the cards and connect them more deeply to each client’s specific situation.
Intuitive Readers: These readers rely on their intuition and use the cards more as a visual tool for the client.
There's no right or wrong approach; it's about finding a reader whose style resonates with you and your needs.
Look for Referrals and Reviews
Word of mouth is one of the best ways to find a reliable tarot reader. Ask friends, family, or trusted online communities for recommendations. Online reviews can also be helpful, but be cautious of testimonials that seem overly glowing or too good to be true. Genuine reviews usually focus on the reader's approach, ethics, and overall experience rather than just the outcome of the reading.
You can find readers in local metaphysical stores or psychic fairs, and some even have their own storefronts. I usually suggest going to a reader connected to a store you know and trust, as they are setting the pricing for the reader. It creates a certain level of protection if you are in a fragile state or unsure of how the process should work.
Watch Out for Red Flags
If a tarot card reader says certain things, it should set off warning bells. The most glaring is if they claim you're cursed or under a spell and then offer to remove it—for a high fee. This is a classic scam tactic. No ethical tarot reader will ever tell you you're cursed or ask for extra money to "fix" your life. If this happens, it's best to walk away immediately.
Another red flag is if a reader makes you dependent on them or pressures you into regular sessions. Honest readers will encourage you to use the insights from your session to empower your own life.
Check Their Credentials and Experience
While there's no formal certification for tarot readers, many reputable ones have taken courses, studied extensively, or have years of experience. Don't hesitate to ask about their background or how they approach reading. A reader should be transparent about their process and make you feel comfortable and informed.
Trust Your Intuition
If something feels off or if you feel pressured or uncomfortable during your interaction, it's okay to step back. A good reader respects your boundaries and makes you feel at ease—not anxious or afraid.
Understand the Payment Structure
An ethical tarot reader should let you know the cost of a session before you begin, with no surprise fees. Be wary of anyone who insists on large upfront payments for future sessions or offers discounts for bulk readings.
Set Clear Boundaries
Before your reading, tell the reader what you're comfortable discussing. A professional tarot reader will respect these boundaries and won't push you. Remember, you're in control of the session, and it's okay to steer the conversation or end it if you feel uneasy.
Tarot is meant to be a tool for empowerment, not fear. With the right approach, you can find a reader who honors the practice and provides meaningful, insightful guidance. And always remember: if someone tries to convince you that you're cursed and that only they can help—for a price—run in the other direction.